“We want to help, but keep our home separate.”
Discuss a gift, a properly documented family loan or a purchase plan that does not need family support. Think about both households’ cash reserves.
Understand the commitments →A guarantee, a gift and a family loan do different jobs. Government support is a separate pathway again.
Start with the gap you are trying to close, then consider the commitment each option creates for everyone involved.
These are different arrangements, not interchangeable names for the same loan.
| Option | How it helps | What the family should weigh up |
|---|---|---|
| Family guarantee | Property provides additional security, rather than a cash gift. The buyer remains responsible for the home loan. [2] | The guarantor takes a legal obligation and risks the property securing it. Understand the limit, covered debts and release process. Read the guarantor’s guide. |
| Cash gift | Money is contributed without an expectation of repayment. The lender may ask for a letter confirming the amount and whether repayment is expected. [3] | The giver parts with the money. Consider their future needs; gifting may still affect income and assets tests for government payments. [4] |
| Family loan | A family member lends money under an agreed repayment arrangement. It is not a gift. Obtain legal advice on recording the terms. [5] | Tell the home-loan lender about the debt and repayment terms. Discuss repayment expectations, security and what happens if family circumstances change. [1] |
“Parent assist” is sometimes used as a broad label for family help. Ask what the actual proposal involves—cash, another loan, security or shared ownership—before comparing it with anything else.
The Australian Government 5% Deposit Scheme is separate from a parent or relative guaranteeing your mortgage.
For an eligible loan, the government provides a guarantee to a participating lender. The scheme can allow purchase with a smaller deposit without LMI; you still owe and repay the home loan. Eligibility, property price caps and lender assessment apply. [6]
These are scheme minimums, not the full cash needed to buy. A greater deposit may be required in your circumstances. Single-parent eligibility is not limited to first-home buyers. [7] [8]
These are names used under the former Home Guarantee Scheme. Since 1 October 2025, the expanded scheme is called the Australian Government 5% Deposit Scheme. The earlier Family Home Guarantee supported eligible single parents; it did not mean asking your own family to guarantee a loan. Check the current rules rather than relying on an older article. [9]
Discuss a gift, a properly documented family loan or a purchase plan that does not need family support. Think about both households’ cash reserves.
Understand the commitments →Compare the overall costs of a guarantee, any scheme eligibility and an ordinary low-deposit loan. Avoid choosing on a single upfront saving.
Explore deposit pathways →Revisit the price range, timing and savings plan before asking anyone to guarantee a loan. A home should leave space for the life you want to live.
Work through your buffer →For grants, duty concessions and other assistance, explore the first-home support guide →
General information, checked 13 October 2026. This guide is not a personal recommendation, legal advice or a loan approval. Lender policies, scheme rules and individual circumstances matter. Obtain independent legal and financial advice before giving a guarantee.
Bank pages describe their own policies; they are not promises that another lender will offer the same terms.
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